CIRCLE #4

STEP 1: LISTEN TO THE PODCAST

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THE FEW

This is where we experience support and expanded connection. This circle is where we are connected with other individuals as we live out our existence. There is an association for mutually connected events throughout life at varying degrees of bonding.

STEP 2: TAKE THE ASSESSMENT

STEP 3: RE(SOURCE) YOUR HEALTH

THE FEW

**- People we are authentic with and not vulnerable**
**- These are the relationships we do life with (weddings, funerals, holidays, fun, adventure, support)**
**- Friends or family that we have similar interests**
**- A place to look for potential #3 relationships**
**- Family can be a major supplier of #4 relationships**

FOLLOW ALONG

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The Few - Description

They are the relationships that we do life with. There is association at mutually connected events They are friendships, family and extended family that we use as _________ in life

We are authentic with but not ____________with our #4 relationships.

The Association With The #3 and Inner Circle Relationships

We get our # 3 relationships from this circle according to vulnerability. This is also where we would move #3 relationships to upon breach in the

Moving someone through the circle of relationships is what healthy dating is about. The # 4 relationships are the support relationships that we do the celebratory times of life. The #4 relationships are the support relationships that we also

The Detriment of Vulnerability in #4 Relationships

If we don't have good # 3 relationships we can become too vulnerable in #4, which will create personal crisis. It takes deep relationship to handle vulnerable information. You run a risk of creating a drama circle. Very few relationships are

Moving From a #4 To A #3 Relationship

The best way to move the few (#4) to the select few (#3) is to just communicate the intention

Family is The Major Supplier of #4 Relationships

The family is the no burn zone so do not burn bridges We don't pick our family. We are in the relationship for commitment of support. Establish support and seek

The Reason for #4 Family

Family creates opportunity to work through relationships that we wouldn't necessarily choose. It gives occasion for us to work through our own stuff. We are being invited be authentic and real. Since we are not responsible for someone else's r_________________ we can seek reconciliation without it being returned. It will help in our personal growth.